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Appendix
Lamentation
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- What did you mean when
you said the shoe is on the other foot?!
- The
two schools bullied me and somewhere along the line either got them to
continue the bullying on behalf of the school either by bullying them
into it or by lying them into it!
- So what has that got
to do with the shoe being on the other foot?!
- The number one
rule when it comes to schoolyard bullying is never ever ever give them
what they want. You must always do the opposite of what they want you
to do otherwise it's not going to stop!
- You
need to understand they are not hurting you if you are not doing what
they want. Their power comes from their belief that you will eventually
cave in and give them what they want!
- I don't
understand how the shoe is on the other foot?!
- At
some point they are forced to realise it's not working, they are not
getting what they want but they are pigheaded and they continue to do
it in the belief they will eventually succeed!
- I am
obviously missing something here!
- At some point their friends and family will want
them to stop doing it but they won't stop doing it because they can't.
- So?!
- They
will
eventually lose their family and friends because they want them to stop
doing it to you and they won't stop doing it to you!
- So
their friends and family will actually
stop them doing it to you?!
- It's
also a long and drawn out process too!
- In
the end they lose their friends and family because they won't stop
bullying you?!
- That's
right but you have to be patient because its takes a long time!
- So
she will eventually lose all her friends and family because she won't
let it go?!
- And at that point the shoe is on the other foot?!
- Yes it is because now what she was doing to you
her family and friends will do to her instead!
- Why?!
- She
wouldn't let it go and now they don't have a relationship because she
wouldn't let it go!
- How does their relationship end because
she won't stop doing it?!
- Her
friends and family grow to resent her for making them do this to you
because they never wanted to do it to you she bullied them into it!
- So you just sit there
and let them beat you up because they want you to run and you're not
going too?!
- They are
punishing you for not doing what they wanted you to do. The goal is
next time you will do it because you don't want to be beaten up again.
- So you don't do it
and you're beaten up again, what is the point in that?!
- At some
point they are forced to realise it's not working and they will leave
you alone. They may try something different because this is obviously
not working.
- Why is it not
working?!
- Because
you're not doing what they want! The whole point of beating you up is
to get you to do what they want. If they keep beating you up then
clearly you're not doing what they want deliberately!
- What am I
supposed to do, tell my parents I am being bullied at school?!
- You tell them you got into a fight with someone
and you are not going to be bullied into doing it.
- All they
are going to do is cause problems for you at the school?!
- Yes but at some point they are going to have to
move you to another school too.
- What
are you saying I should go?!
- Yes you should.
- But
they win
- They don't win you still didn't do what they
wanted you to do.
- I
can't believe you expect me to stand there and get beaten up?! Who
wants to get beaten up?!
- I didn't say anything about avoiding it. One can
argue you deserved that for not trying to avoid it!
- They
come looking for you and they do it to you because they want to start
something.
- But
they are not going to touch you in a library. Eating your lunch in
front of the staff room is another one too. There were always teachers
in the playground and you keep yourself in eyeshot of them.
- They
smart though they make it look like it's your fault.
- That's
why you don't speak to them you route around them and avoid them when
you speak to them.
- They follow you home.
- That
is why you always take the long way home. You want to create a
situation where there just no point doing it to you.
- It's easier said than done.
- I
understand it's not going to work for everyone but it will work for
some of you.
- What was happening was
people were being confronted over why they said the things they said
about you but they couldn't justify it, they couldn't justify any of
it. All they could do is tell them who told them that
- At that point the
people she bullied when she was a little girl came out and trashed them
for believing her telling them that she was notorious for doing this to
people.
- Everyone turned on
her for it and had nothing more to do with her after that but
unfortunately for you it didn't really change your situation.
- Everyone had lost
everything when it came to you and it was all her fault but
people were forced into a horrible situation where she had too much
power in this situation and didn't know how to deal with it.
- It is always when their power is taken from them
that you find out who they really are. It is always when things start
going pear shaped for them and their plan starts to fall apart you find
out who they really are.
- Now everyone
hates her and no one wants to have anything to do with her but when it
comes to you people just don't know what to do so they didn't do
anything.
- There wouldn't have been a lot they could do
either way because she would've made sure everything was gone
deliberately because she was exploiting her power.
- I don't
understand what you mean by exploiting her power?!
- Her power to influence people and change the
outcome in the situation.
- With
great power comes great responsibility
- You would be amazed at how many people are
irresponsible with that great power.
- You
are so cynical, aren't you?!
- I am these days!
- Why
didn't you do anything about what she was doing to you?!
- I didn't know about it.
- Why
didn't you know about it?!
- I
never had a relationship with that woman. I wanted one but she didn't.
- When
you say she didn't want one what did she do to you exactly?!
- She
would avoid me after we had spoken.
- So she made it quite clear she didn't want a
relationship with you?!
- Yes.
She did it to me all the time, after we spoke she would avoid me.
- Now I understand, you didn't know what she had
done because you didn't have a relationship with her. Does that go for
her husband too?!
- He was worse, he would ignore me when I spoke to
him she at least tried but wouldn't try very hard.
- You have been most helpful and thank you!
- I am
not siding with that woman but all she really did wrong was side
with the school. I warned Rod of the same outcome if he did the same
and look what happened to him?! Yet if it was someone else they
wouldn't have let them get involved
- They
sit there and they cry, they shake their heads in disbelief, what
went wrong?! How could this happen?! Can't blame me for it I wasn't
involved in it deliberately but you would've if you could've.
- But
who is this person?! What have they become?! Their friends and their
family don't even recognise them any more! What happened?! The two
schools turned them into Scott but not the real Scott their illusionary
one, the one they invented to justify what they had done to him when he
was little!
- It
happened with Rod too unfortunately where they turned them into that
monster Scott Middleton they have created because they never knew the
real one they never wanted to know the real one. They created a
fraudulent version of him and used that fraudulent version of him to
justify everything what's known in logic as a strawman!
- Now
if you wanted to say that monster Scott was Michael for example you're
forced into a horrible situation where Michael may not have been as bad
as they made him out to be?! It's sensationalised with the lies and
made to look worse than it actually is!
- I
look at these Christians and say, how could you miss Jesus Christ's
warning?! Matthew 23:15 Woe to you Scribes and Pharisees, you
hypocrites! You travel the land and see looking for converts and when
converted you send them to Hell with you.
- It's
Incredible! If you read Matthew 23 you can imagine me being Jesus
Christ and the Scribes and Pharisees being that school and it's so much
like how I feel about it too! It's like I am living it again, it's the
same story just with different people playing the roles!
- It's
scary too because it's like the gospels all over again. I did have
friends once and I guess you could've used the word "disciple" to refer
to them because I just wanted them to know everything I knew.
- I
am not joking either, the story of Jesus Christ in the New Testament is
so much like what happened to me and these two schools that all I am
waiting for is the crucifixion but unlike Jesus I won't be coming back
it ends at the crucifixion.
- Some biblical scholars
believe that Jesus Christ didn't actually come back the disciples were
so lost without him that they just imagined that he had returned
because they needed him but he hadn't actually returned.
- Well
I can't really comment on that I never knew how my friends felt about
it because they never discussed it with me. They were just there one
minute and gone the next unfortunately.
- You weren't lying
about that because they told us that but what you may not realise is
that they grew to regret doing that to you because you weren't the
problem but in the end it didn't change much.
- By the way, there
has been a crucifixion and I guess you missed it because there is no
point proceeding since you've been crucified?!
- That is true but you have to warn people that to get involved in the two schools will bring death.
- They're the Devil and the Devil brings the Apocalypse.
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